#52: The 3 Steps I took to Lose the First 10lb

I’ve started my weight loss journey again. Or maybe I should say, I’ve decided to focus on weight loss again.

Not because I hate myself. Not because I think I’m “fat.” But because I don’t feel comfortable in my own skin right now.

Learning to like my body has taken me as far as it can right now. I’m proud of that work. But this time, I’m choosing weight loss from a place of kindness, love, and wanting to feel good.

Some people in the body positive world might say that if I want to lose weight, it means I haven’t “done enough work” on myself.

I don’t agree. I think it’s possible to like yourself and still want change.

For me, I don’t have a set number in mind, BMI charts don’t interest me. My goal is to feel good, likely somewhere around a size 14. I want this to be free from the overwhelm, the yo-yo dieting, and the constant obsession with food.

So, what am I actually doing to lose those first 10lb?
Spoiler: it’s not 6am runs, strange smoothies, or turning my life upside down.

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Firstly, Why I Chose 10lb at a Time

Big numbers feel overwhelming. Saying “I need to lose x stones” makes the mountain feel impossible.

But 10lb? That feels achievable. It’s enough to notice changes, without making me spiral into diet-mentality or restriction.

Breaking my journey into smaller milestones keeps it simple, motivating, and sustainable.

The 3 steps:

Step 1: Pick One Small Food Habit

The first thing I tackled was my overeating.

I started by planning simple meals each morning not “perfect” diet meals, just easy food I already had in. Nothing fancy, just stress-free and realistic.

Then I asked myself:
“What am I eating outside of these meals, and do I really want or need it?”

Not because I “can’t” have it, but because I wanted to understand why I was reaching for it.

This one habit has stopped a lot of boredom eating. It has reduced emotional snacking. It has also helped me become more aware of when I was eating without actually being hungry.

Step 2: Move More, But Make It Fit Your Life

Next, I focused on movement.

I didn’t join a bootcamp or commit to a marathon. Instead, I made a conscious effort to walk more.

That meansstes walking around the house, pottering in the garden, or pacing a little when I’m at the gym with clients instead of standing still. Small movements that add up.

Right now, this fits my life. Strength training (at least having more structure to it) and running will come later, but at this stage it’s about movement I can stick to without the guilt of “shoulds” and “musts.”

Step 3: Track Progress the Feel-Good Way

Yes, I use the scales but they’re not the only tool.

I also use a piece of string to measure my waist (no numbers, just progress). I check in with how my clothes fit, how my body feels, and how much mental chatter I’m having about my body.

Progress isn’t just about pounds lost. It’s about energy, confidence, and the little shifts that make you feel better day to day.

The Takeaway

What’s working for me isn’t restriction, guilt, or extremes. It’s keeping things simple, doable, and joyful.

  • Pick one small food habit – I chose reducing overeating.
  • Move more in a way that fits your life – for me, walking more.
  • Track progress in a way that feels good – not just numbers, but energy, confidence, and how clothes fit.

These small changes have added up, I’ve already lost 7lb, and I’m feeling lighter both physically and mentally.

If you want to lose weight without the all-or-nothing approach, this is where to start.

10 Habits for Weight Loss

Download the 10 habits for weight loss here and discover where you will start to reach your first 10lb and feel great doing it.

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